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- Joined: Fri Apr 12, 2013 4:47 pm
- Location: Indianapolis, IN
Married women and men seem to drop the act that so many women and men have when it comes to dating. They're more relaxed and open toward new people, because they aren't looking for a relationship to plug up their holes. They're already happy, so they appear to be normal and a prime candidate for a relationship with you. I have that problem backwards. I want friendships, but most gay guys I meet either want a relationship or ***, neither of which I am remotely interested in with them.
I will say this for being friends with married women: they really do know others like them who would be thrilled to date you. Be friends just for the sake of friendship. Build a network and get to know people. Eventually you do fine someone you naturally get close to, then it all works. Don't go searching for a relationship, because it puts unnecessary pressure on both of you, which I think forces the crazy out.
Even though this is the ideal way of finding someone, I'll be honest and say the first time I went out with my bf was a few days after meeting online. YMMV wildly on that.
Scores on the mend...
FICO: 650 (Discover/TU, 6/23/2016)
Cards I Use Citi Double Cash, Chase Amazon, Capital One QuickSilver
Sock Drawer Discover IT, Citi Diamond Preferred, AE Visa, QuickSilver One, Walmart CC, CareCredit, CreditOne (keeping for history for now)
Short Goal Reach 680