Elliot Castro wrote:So what is she going to tell you parents that is so embarrassing that you're willing to let her blackmail you? That you had gay impulses once upon a time? That you still have Freudian dreams about your mother in bed? That you still pleasure yourself from time to time? Who cares, it's your parents, it's not the end of the world. Everyone is human and has done/thinks things they are not proud if, it's called BEING HUMAN.
Worse comes to worse, just say your GF is lying then if she follows through. If she is your X and trying to make you look bad, then they will understand.
Anyhow, don't tell me you haven't already changed your CC number. And you better hide all that stuff away from her. Go and buy one of those small safes to hide your important documents in so she can't snoop around with them. And best of all, try to get the hell out of there and away from her.
But since you won't call the police on her, there isn't that much now we can do. You're basically letting her get away with anything she wants. Hopefully you will be more careful with your next girl-friend down the road. There are plenty of gold-diggers around, so you'll always have to be on the watch-out for that, especially since you seem to let them run you over so easy.
Amen to this! You need to grow up. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to help. This girl can say all kinds of stuff about you, embarrassing or not. People will believe some of it but generally will not care. They will see here for what she is.
And if you actually think your friends, your parents, your teachers, your minister, or whoever else you would be embarrassed to have never done or thought anything kinky or whatever...well, trust me, they have! Yup, your mom, your dad...so don't worry about it, Just smile and leave them all guessing about what part is true and what part she is making up.
The bottom line is that she stole money from you and is trying to blackmail you. She is bad news. Don't let her get away with it.